My Village

"From Teen Mom to Thriving Single Parent: My Journey

As a single parent since the age of 16, I've faced my fair share of challenges. But one thing has remained constant - my devoted dedication to my children. And I haven't been alone in this journey - my mother has been a steady presence, serving as a second guardian and source of support for my kids.

My journey began with dropping out of high school to raise my daughter, followed by years of learning to rely solely on myself. In 2015, I took the leap and entered the workforce, determined to provide for my growing family. With three kids in tow, I excelled in retail but life had other plans.

But it wasn't easy. I struggled with postpartum depression, toxic relationships, and the weight of responsibility. I chose to forgo daycare, instead opting to care for my children full-time, with my mother's help and guidance. She was always there to lend a hand, offer advice, and provide a safe haven for my kids.

Fast-forward to 2024, and my children are now older, wiser, and more expressive. They're learning to communicate effectively, even my four-year-old is developing her skills. And I'm proud to be their maid, chef, driver, ATM, family, manager, doctor, nurse, counselor, hairdresser/barber and teacher - all rolled into one. My mother remains a vital part of their lives, and I'm grateful for her support through everything. 

This year has been tough, but it's nothing compared to the heartbreak of losing my daughter in 2022. Yet, I've emerged stronger, more resilient, and more determined than ever to give my children the best possible life.

My story is one of triumph, of a single parent who refused to give up, even when the world seemed against me. And it's also a testament to the power of family and the importance of having a support system. I hope it inspires others to keep pushing forward, no matter what challenges they face.