Reflections on Staying

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Why did I stay with someone who disrespected me from the start? 👀

Why did I allow disrespect to become a pattern in our relationship?👀

Why did I continue to have children with him, despite his lack of involvement in their lives?👀

Why did I repeatedly let him back into my life, despite the harm he caused?👀

Why did I tolerate his lies and abuse, and why didn't I speak out?👀

Why did I reconnect with him after periods of separation, and why didn't I stand up for myself when he publicly disparaged me?👀

The truth is, the love was never mutual. I didn't want to harm him or his reputation. But by staying, I fueled the fire of toxicity, and it consumed me with anger, regret, and disappointment. 💁🏾‍♀️

🗣If you're in a similar situation, I want you to know that it's never too late to leave. If you've already lost yourself in the process, it's okay. Every new day brings a new chance to start anew. Take that chance and make a change BEFORE it's too late!! 🗣